A seller wants proof of funds before I go under contract and my buyer won't release his until he sees the property.
This is a sequencing problem that ends a deal before it starts if you don't solve it. The seller's agent is asking for POF to know the end buyer is real. The buyer won't expose his bank statement to a seller who hasn't committed to him. Both positions are rational and they are directly incompatible. What I've seen work is a hybrid: you provide your own POF as the contracting entity, which is clean because you are the one going under contract, and you hold back the buyer's financials entirely until assignment. That only holds up if you have something to show, even a small proof of liquidity, so the question of whether you are adequately capitalized to be the contracting party in reverse wholesale is not a theoretical one. The other route is a lender letter tied to the end buyer's entity rather than a full bank statement, which gives the seller's agent something letterheaded without exposing account balances, though some listing agents push back on anything that isn't a statement. What kills deals here is the wholesaler trying to stitch together the seller's requirement and the buyer's requirement simultaneously in a forty-eight hour window with no prepared document on either side. The seller rarely cares whose money ultimately funds the deal, they care that someone in the chain has it. If you are the named purchaser on the contract, make the case that your POF is the relevant POF, and let the buyer's documentation stay inside the assignment agreement where it belongs. What does your own liquidity look like relative to what the seller is asking to see?