The exit fee nobody prices until month eleven
A fixed origination point gets priced at closing and everybody moves on. The exit fee sits in the note, accrues against a payoff that feels far away, and then shows up the week the borrower is trying to close a refinance with a rate lock ticking. I have watched that sequence sink otherwise clean deals. The borrower models the spread on entry costs, ignores the exit fee because it is conditional, and then discovers it is not conditional at all when the title company runs the payoff demand. A two-point exit on a $300,000 note is $6,000 that did not appear in the borrower's pro forma. On a thin flip margin, that is the difference between a wire and a conversation about an extension.
The lender's case for exit fees is real: they protect yield on loans that pay off in month three when the borrower found cheaper money. Without an exit fee, a private lender is writing options for free. If rates drop or the borrower seasons the asset faster than expected, the lender collects three months of interest on a note priced for twelve. The exit fee is the floor on return, and it belongs in the structure. The problem is disclosure mechanics, not the fee itself. A fee that appears in paragraph fourteen of the note and gets glossed over in the term sheet is a relationship problem waiting for a payoff date to surface it.
The structure worth considering is a declining exit fee that steps down by quarter: two points if the loan pays off before month four, one point between months four and eight, zero after that. The lender still captures yield on early exits, the borrower can model the actual cost against each exit scenario, and the conversation at closing is specific rather than abstract. Both sides know the number before it matters.
What is driving your exit fee structure right now, flat rate or does it vary by holding period?