The lender angle is where most people spin their wheels too long. In my experience with FHA and conventional on small multifamily out here, the underwriter is not going to budge on a full cert, but what I've seen work is getting the seller to sign a repair escrow holdback agreement where funds get parked with the title company, demo happens immediately after close, and a re-inspection gets scheduled within 10 days of possession. Not every lender allows it, but Wells and a couple of the regional portfolio lenders I've worked with in the IE have accepted that structure when the inspector's written notes say "field appears functional, obstruction prevents certification" rather than "failed." The wording in that inspector report matters enormously. If yours says anything closer to a fail, go back and ask him to reword it if his honest professional opinion is that the field is likely fine.
The thing nobody mentions until they're already torched by it: concrete slabs over drain fields don't just block inspection access, they trap heat and cut off oxygen exchange in the soil, and a field that was marginal before the slab went down can be in genuinely bad shape even if it's still technically draining right now. I would get a soil scientist or a septic engineer, not just the inspector, to give you a written opinion on expected remaining field life based on the tank age, perc rates from the county file, and how long that slab has been sitting there. Temecula parcel records will have the original permit date for the septic. If that field is 20 years old and has been smothered for five of them, your real exposure is a $15,000 to $28,000 replacement, not a $3,200 demo, and you want to know that before you negotiate the credit.