Seller financing offered on the first call is a flag I can't ignore until I understand why it's on the table before I asked.
A case worth studying: the owner of a six-unit reaches out through a mutual contact, asks for no agents, and mentions seller carry within the first three minutes. Purchase price is 480k, he'll carry 60 percent at five percent over fifteen years, 40 percent down from the buyer. On paper the debt service on the carry is manageable and the cap rate at that price is thin but not offensive. What nobody in the conversation has asked yet is why a clear-title owner with a building that cash flows is volunteering to leave 288k in the deal at below-market cost of capital instead of pulling it out and putting it somewhere else. The possibilities that matter are: he can't get a clean appraisal, the rent roll has a problem he knows about and the buyer will discover, he needs the installment sale to spread a large taxable gain, or he genuinely wants passive income and this is a planned exit. The first two are problems. The third is actually a reason to negotiate harder on price because his tax motive gives him an incentive to close. The fourth is fine. The issue is that each of those four reads produces a different offer, a different due diligence list, and a different level of comfort with the carry structure itself. So when the carry comes up before you've asked for it, the first question is not whether the terms work, it's which of those four you're actually in. What did the contact who made the introduction tell you about why this owner is moving now?