Your Solo 401(k) instinct on this makes sense, and the guide content actually calls this out directly: a Solo 401(k) is generally exempt from the unrelated debt-financed income tax that hits an SDIRA when you borrow. That alone is a meaningful difference when the asset produces no rent to absorb a UBIT bill.
On the participant loan: the IRS allows you to borrow the lesser of $50,000 or 50% of your vested balance. With $60k sitting in there, your ceiling is $30,000, not $50,000, because the 50% cap applies first. The loan has to be repaid within five years on a roughly level amortization schedule, and the repayments come from your personal funds, not from the account. On bare land with no income, that repayment has to come out of your own pocket, so the cash flow picture still requires planning even if the UBIT problem goes away.
The SDIRA non-recourse route you described is the alternative, and you are right that lenders willing to do non-recourse on raw land are scarce and the terms are typically worse than conventional financing. The guide flags that all IRA borrowing must be non-recourse, meaning no personal guarantee. A Solo 401(k) participant loan is different because it runs to you personally as the participant, not to the plan itself.
One thing worth confirming with a tax professional: whether the specific way your Solo 401(k) plan document is written allows real estate as an investment. Not all plan documents do, even when the account type technically permits it. That document language is the actual governing rule, not the general IRS framework.
Everything here is a starting point. A CPA or ERISA attorney familiar with self-directed retirement accounts should review the plan document and the loan mechanics before you commit.
What does your current plan document say about alternative asset classes?