Skipped the build, bought a house that already had a legal ADU
I've spent about a year trying to work out which strategy actually fits, and building a backyard cottage kept failing the same test for me: I don't have $180k and I don't have the patience for a permit queue. So I looked for houses that already had a second unit.
Found a 1950s three bedroom with a converted attached garage studio, separate entrance off the side yard, its own bathroom and kitchenette, 410 square feet. Bought at $412k with 5% down. My payment including taxes and insurance is $2,690. The studio is rented at $1,450 on a twelve month lease, tenant moved in eight days ago. So I'm paying about $1,240 out of pocket for a three bedroom house I live in.
The part that nearly broke it: the listing said "permitted ADU." The permit was pulled in 2019, the work was done, and the final inspection was never signed off. It sat open. I found this out ten days before closing when my agent asked the city for the permit history. It took eleven weeks and $2,300 of corrections (GFCI outlets, a smoke and CO detector interlock, and one handrail) to get the final signed. Seller credited $2,000 at closing after we renegotiated, and I closed with the permit still open and a written scope from an electrician.
What I'd keep: pulling permit history before the inspection contingency ended, not after. What I still don't know is whether I should have walked instead. It worked out. It could easily have been a unit the city told me to remove.