Couldn't fund the month 26 capital call. The dilution language did its job.
18k into a value-add multifamily deal on a platform I'd used twice before. 64 units, midwest secondary market, sponsor's plan was interior renovations on turnover, push rents about 190 a unit, refinance at month 30 and return most of capital. Projected 16% IRR, five year hold, I underwrote it at 12% and was fine with that.
Month 26 the sponsor sent a capital call. Floating rate bridge debt, their rate cap expired, renovation pace ran roughly 40% behind because turnover was slower than modeled, and operating reserves were down to about six weeks. They needed 1.4m across the equity, my share was about 2.6k.
I didn't fund it. That's the decision I'd change, but not for the reason you'd think. I didn't fund it because I'd already committed the cash to two other things and I read the call notice as optional. It was optional. The consequence was in the operating agreement all along, non-participating members get diluted on a 2 to 1 basis against participating members' new capital, and the new money also takes a preferred position ahead of the original preferred return. My 18k position converted to something closer to 11k of pro rata claim, sitting behind a new preferred tier that has to be paid in full before I see a dollar.
The refinance happened at month 34 at a rate that works. Property is fine now. The waterfall means my realistic outcome is somewhere between getting my money back and getting maybe 1.15x at a sale two or three years out, on a deal I underwrote at 12% IRR.
What I'd do differently. Hold back reserve capital against every equity position I fund, not just against the properties I own myself. Ten percent of every commitment, uninvested, earmarked. And read the dilution provision before funding, because it's the clause that determines what a bad quarter costs you, and mine cost me about 7k of position value for a 2.6k decision.