Buyer walked three days out, so I closed leg one anyway to save 5,000
Contract at 74k on a 1,400 square foot two story in an older streetcar neighborhood, roof was near end of life and I priced that in. End buyer at 98k, cash, contract signed, funding commitment from a transactional lender with a 1,750 fee that went non-refundable when I locked the closing date.
Three days before leg two, the buyer's brother in law looked at the roof and the buyer sent me a one line email backing out. He had a 1,000 deposit up and he let it go without arguing.
My seller would not extend. She'd already moved and had a date. My earnest was 5,000 and hard. So the choice was walk and lose 6,750 with nothing to show, or close leg one and own a house I never wanted to own. I closed it, with hard money at 2 points and 12 percent because my transactional funder does not do multi-week paper and told me so in about four minutes.
Held it five weeks. Relisted at 96k, took 92k from a retail-ish buyer who needed the roof credited, gave 3,000 toward it. Carry, insurance, utilities, one extension point, lawn, and the second set of closing costs on the way out.
All in I'm down about 9,200 against an underwritten 14,500. Better than losing 6,750 and getting nothing, and I know that. Still a bad two months.
What I'd do differently: I had one buyer. No second buyer on that property, no relationship with anyone who does 30 day money, and no idea what my own carrying cost per week actually was until I was paying it. I scheduled a closing date, which triggered a non-refundable fee, on the strength of a cash buyer I'd never closed with.