Talked myself out of a deal for 14 months and then the market moved. What it cost
This is a loss with no closing statement, which is maybe why nobody writes it up.
Early last year I had a small ground-up under contract. 9 units, 3 stories, wood frame, in an inner suburb with almost no new supply. Land was $240k. I had a GC I'd worked with on renovations who priced it at $1.71M hard, and my all-in was $2.24M, so $249k a door. Projected rents put NOI at about $148k, a 6.6 yield on cost. Lender had given me a term sheet at 68 percent loan to cost.
I didn't do it. I kept re-running the model. I built a version with 15 percent cost overruns, a version with six months of extra lease-up, a version with both. The both version broke even, and that scared me enough that I let the contract expire in the feasibility period. Cost me $9k in earnest money and about $11k in a survey, a geotech report, and preliminary architectural.
What happened after. The site sold three months later for $265k. The buyer built almost exactly the plan I'd drawn. It's leasing now, and from what I can tell from listings they're getting rents about 6 percent above what I underwrote, because so little else delivered in that pocket.
So the loss is $20k of hard cost plus whatever the deal would have been worth. I'm not going to put a number on the second part because I'd be making it up.
What I'd do differently. I'd have decided in advance what the go/no-go test was and written it down before I built the model. Instead I built models until one of them said no, and then I used that one. A 6.6 on cost against where exit caps were sitting was a spread I should have taken, and I knew that at the time.