$700 of my 20k went to a commission I never saw
I've been researching for months and hadn't bought anything, so when an advisor walked me through a public non-traded REIT I was ready to move. Minimum was 2,500, I put in 20,000.
What I didn't understand: the shares came in a class with an upfront selling commission of 3.5%, plus an ongoing stockholder servicing fee charged every year after that. So on day one I owned about 19,300 of net asset value after paying 20,000. The same REIT had another class with no upfront commission, available through platforms that charge a flat advisory fee instead. I found that out a year later reading the prospectus fee table, which was in the document the whole time.
Second thing I got wrong. Distributions came in around 5.2% annualized and I counted all of it as earnings. When the tax form arrived, a meaningful chunk was labeled return of capital, which means part of what I got paid was my own money coming back and my cost basis dropped by that amount. How that's treated is a question for a CPA, and mine explained it in about ten minutes. I just wish I'd asked before instead of after.
I held two years and redeemed. Got back roughly 20,100 after the price moved a little in my favor, plus the distributions. So not a disaster, and I learned two things for about 700 dollars.
What I'd do differently: ask for the share class table in writing before signing anything, and ask straight out which class the person recommending it gets paid on.