Six months of probate data, nothing closed. Here's where the money went.
I ran a probate campaign from February to July and closed zero deals out of it. Not one. I want to write down where the money went while it's still fresh, because everything I read before I started made this sound like a mailbox you check for checks.
What I spent: $340 a month for court-sourced probate filings in three counties, about $1,900 in mail over six months (four touches to roughly 600 records), and a call answering service at $180 a month because I was on job sites and missing calls. Round it to $4,600 plus my time.
What I got: 61 calls, 22 real conversations, 9 property visits, 4 offers, 1 contract, 0 closings. The contract died because the personal representative hadn't been formally appointed yet and the sibling who was pushing the sale wasn't the one the court eventually named. That took eleven weeks to figure out. By the time it sorted itself out the family had listed with an agent.
Where I actually went wrong, in order of how much it cost me:
One, I mailed the newest filings. Someone three weeks out from a funeral is not making decisions about real estate, and my first-touch response was almost all people telling me to go away, some of them politely. The conversations that went anywhere were with people 5 to 9 months out.
Two, I never asked on the first call whether letters had been issued and who held them. I asked about the house. That's how I got eleven weeks into a contract with someone who couldn't sign for the estate. Who has authority to sell an estate property is a court question and it varies by state, so I should have been asking early and confirming with the estate's attorney rather than guessing.
Three, I treated the answering service as a solution. It took messages. It didn't build any rapport, and probate is a channel where the first thirty seconds decide whether you get a second call.
Four, three counties was too many for one person mailing alone. I had no reputation anywhere. The people I know who do well in this have two or three attorneys who know their name, and I had none.
What I'd do differently: one county, mail records at the 4-month mark and again at 8, answer my own phone, and spend the data money on getting in front of estate attorneys and a couple of estate sale companies instead of buying a third county. Same budget, different allocation.