Lost my earnest money because I assumed the end buyer's cash could pay for both closings
I had a small three bedroom under contract at 91k and a buyer lined up at 118k. I picked a double close over an assignment because 27k looked like a number that would make my buyer come back and renegotiate, and everything I'd read said taking title keeps the two prices separate.
What I never did was ask the closing agent, in plain words, whether they would fund the first closing out of the second buyer's money. I assumed that was standard and available anywhere. Three weeks in, ten days before the seller's deadline, the closer told me they don't disburse one file's proceeds into another file. Her exact phrasing was that the purchase has to be funded independently of the resale.
So now I needed 91k plus costs for about four hours. I called three transactional funders. Two would have worked on price, roughly 2 points plus a doc fee around 1,495, but both wanted the resale contract and proof the end buyer could close, and my resale contract had a financing contingency with a lender who wouldn't put anything in writing inside a week. The third wouldn't quote a loan under 100k at all.
I asked the seller for a 15 day extension. He'd already extended once for the inspection period and said no, he had a backup offer.
It cost me 5,000 in earnest money that had gone hard, plus 640 for an inspection I ordered mostly to look serious and 350 for attorney review. Just under 6,000.
What I'd do differently: get the closing agent's policy on back to back funding in an email before I sign the purchase contract, and have a funder already pre-approved so their answer doesn't decide the deal. I'd also stop treating a big spread as a reason to hide the number.