The assumption doing the most work in most models I see is that concession burn-off is treated as a certainty timed to lease expiration, with gross rent flowing through clean from month one of the new lease. That works if the market cooperates. It does not work if you are in a Sun Belt submarket still absorbing supply, where the operator re-leases at face rent on paper but the next concession cycle starts eighteen months later.
The more defensible convention separates the two acquisition types exactly the way you are framing it. On a value-add deal, concession burn-off can be modeled as part of the value-add thesis, but it needs its own line and its own probability weight, not a smooth glide into stabilized NOI. On a stabilized acquisition, booking gross rent before concessions have actually burned is aggressive underwriting dressed as conservative underwriting, and that is the gap your going-in cap is hiding.
What I see sharper shops do: they run a concession persistence stress in the hold period, typically assuming some percentage of concessions re-emerge at lease two or three if the submarket vacancy is above a threshold they define at underwriting. If the IRR survives that scenario, the deal underwrites. If it only survives the burn-off-as-scheduled scenario, the entry price is doing too much work.
The exit-side risk you named is real and often underweighted. A buyer in year five underwriting those leases at gross rent less a market concession assumption will impute a lower NOI than your projection, and the bid reflects it. The spread narrows your exit cap cushion right when you need it most.
The unmentioned risk here is lease term stacking. If a third of the leases are already concession-laden and they cluster in expiration, re-leasing concentration amplifies both the burn-off timing risk and the re-concession exposure.
Does your model run a lease-expiration heatmap against your projected submarket vacancy curve, or are the expirations treated as uniformly distributed across the hold?