The 70% rule was basically built around Midwest and Southeast price points where you are flipping $150k to $250k homes and your profit margin is maybe $30k to $40k if everything goes right. When ARVs hit the $600k range your carrying costs, financing, agent fees, and transfer taxes on both ends eat a much bigger absolute dollar figure even if the percentages look similar, so the formula starts under-protecting you in some ways and over-restricting you in others at the same time.
What I have found working closer to that price band is that the real constraint is not a fixed percentage, it is your lender's terms and your actual exit confidence. I have passed on deals where the math worked at 72% or 73% because I was not sure the ARV held, and I have gone to 75% on one where I had a tight comp within 90 days and a contractor already scoped. On your West Roxbury cape specifically, that $615k ARV is doing a lot of heavy lifting. If the kitchen and baths push to $70k instead of $55k, which in Boston metro they often do once you are actually in the walls, your margin compresses fast. The ask being $489k is not your real problem. Your real problem is whether $615k is defensible when finished product in that pocket is selling in the $590k to $620k range depending on the week.