First note I ever created is 14 months in and paying, with setup costs below
I have spent two years reading about lending and never actually put money out. What finally happened is that I sold my own duplex and carried the paper instead of taking cash, which is a strange way to start on the lending side but it is the one that was in front of me.
Numbers. Sale at 215k. Buyer put 20% down, 43k, so I carried 172k at 8.5%, 25 year amortization with a 7 year balloon. Payment is 1,385 plus escrow. Buyer is self employed, two years of returns that a bank did not like and I did, plus 43k of his own money on the table.
The part that nearly killed it was the down payment argument. He opened at 10% and I would not move off 20%. That went back and forth for three weeks and I was fully prepared to lose him. He found the extra from a family member and we closed. Everything I like about this note now traces back to that 20%, because my balance is under 80% of the value and I have room if I ever have to take it back or sell it.
The second thing that almost broke it was title. An old judgment against a prior owner showed up and took five weeks to clear. I paid to clear it rather than let the buyer walk.
What I would keep. A licensed third party servicer from payment one, about 25 a month, which gives me a payment history a note buyer will accept and a person who is not me making the collection calls. Taxes and insurance escrowed. My name on the insurance policy so I get told if it lapses. And an attorney in my state drafting the note and the security instrument, roughly 1,800, which is the best money I spent.
14 payments, all on time. I am not selling it. But I priced what a sale would look like before I signed anything, and knowing that number changed how I structured it.